It seems like just yesterday…
Today I saw that it has been ten years since Princess Diana was killed in a car crash. It really doesn’t seem like it was ten years ago that this happened, I must be getting old, with the years flying by at an increasing pace. It doesn’t seem like her death was yesterday either. It was a while ago, but ten years ago? It’s surprising to me.
It is a sign of age that this is happening to me. It wasn’t that long ago when my adult life was only a few years old, and I only had a few years of adult memories, or memories of things important to adults, like Princess Di’s death. If I only have a few years of adult memory, things that I remember well must be fairly recent. As the years pile on, so do the memories of things that have happened to us, or were important to us, or at least to society. Princess Di’s death certainly didn’t affect me directly, but it was certainly important to our society, so it was registered away in my memory.
Now I may be unique in this in some manner, since I basically do not remember much of anything before high school, so my memory is a little flawed compared to the super-memories that some have. However, as we age, the amount of stuff that we remember grows everyday. Of course the things that we remember well could be several years, or even several decades old. Once it’s in the long term memory, what’s the difference between an event from last year to an event from ten years ago?
I used to be amazed by people who couldn’t remember how old they were, or how long they owned their house, or were in their job, but it’s starting to make sense to me. If you celebrate your birthday every year, your age is easy to remember, because it’s been tracked. But if it’s been a few years since you really paid attention to your birthday, it’s not so easy, and you may need to do a little math.
“Let’s see, I was born in 1973, and it’s 2007, so 2007 minus 1973 is, let’s see, thirty, um, plus four, ah yes, I’m thirty four. Of course.”
I’ve been asked a few times how long I’ve owned my house, or how old my dog, Loki, is. I really don’t know, and again, I’ve got to do the math. Of course, that requires me to know what year I bought my house in or got Loki in (luckily these were in the same year, which helps.) I have to recreate my adulthood.
“I moved to Minnesota over New Years Eve 1999, so I was here in 2000. I started my next job in January of the following year, that would be 2001. I bought my house in July of that year, and got Loki in December of that year, so I’ve owned my house for six years. Really? Six year? That long? How do I still have projects that I wanted to do when I moved in that aren’t complete yet? Jeez, where do the years go…”
Time and memory are interesting things. Everybody experiences them a little differently. To a kid, waiting five minutes for something can be an eternety, but as an adult, slowly trodding through an eight plus hour work day can seem tedious, but tolerable. I suppose as years roll by today, decades will roll by tomorrow. If you believe one group, somebody alive today will live to be 1000, so maybe the centuries will start rolling by soon!